“The wound is the place where light enters.” ~Rumi
Welcome.
My work in this field began with my own healing journey through complex relational trauma. I explored as many modalities as I could, traveling the world in search of answers to a question that continues to guide my practice: What works for me that I can share with others? This path ultimately led me into formal training, earning degrees in Psychology and Social Work from San Diego State University and becoming a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW).
I’ve worked across the healthcare landscape, including medical clinics, psychiatric facilities, residential treatment programs, and mental health crisis units. Beyond clinical settings, I’ve contributed at the macro level—advocating for social justice, leading a national gender and sexual diversity program, and facilitating trauma-informed trainings for psychiatrists and therapists in gender-affirming care.
My background also includes 780 hours of training in yoga and Vedic philosophy across traditions such as Hatha, Sivananda, Trauma-Sensitive Yoga (TCTSY), and Kundalini Yoga. Through my studies in both Eastern and Western healing approaches, I’ve developed a holistic therapeutic style that integrates cognitive and somatic modalities. I incorporate EMDR into individual work, and with couples I use the Gottman Method alongside EMDR to support deeper relational healing.
I work with trauma and addiction across the spectrum, and I provide gender- and sexuality-affirming therapy. I am a member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) and specialize in supporting clients in ENM, non-monogamous, and polyamorous relationships.
If you’re seeking clarity or change, I’m here to help.
I’m Darlynn (she/her), a mover and a healer.
Advanced Trainings
EMDR Trained in Somatic & Attachment Focused (S.A.F.E) EMDR (2022)
A Complete Guide to Becoming an LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapist: Trauma-Informed Clinical Interventions for Adults (2022)
Drs. John & Julie Gottman on the 10 Core Principles for Effective Couples Therapy (2023)
Sexual Desire Discrepancy in Couples (2023)
Treating Psychosis with EMDR (2023)
Deeper Connections: EMDR with Couples and Families (2023)
EMDR Certified (2024)
EMDR for Addictions: Honoring the Coping Rooted in Wisdom (2024)
Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy (2024)
Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP) Certified (2025)
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Informed EMDR (2025)
EMDR & Somatic Therapy (2025)